The rules of dating for men
I used it back in my single days and found it very effective for reaching out to many people who I wouldn’t have otherwise been able to contact or interact with.
However, a lot of people aren’t using online dating to their best benefit.
However, if someone is not interested, you should have noticed an extreme change in their behaviour.
Maybe initially they were approachable and keen, then after a while seem distant and unavailable.
Someone who is uninterested will just leave you hanging.
They won’t call you or even return your calls, and to be honest, you should really have spotted that something is wrong at this stage.
The hard to get player will take a genuine interest in your life.
But if you find yourself in the situation of not knowing whether they will even answer your calls, then the chances are, you are not their type.If you’ve tried to arrange a date, but it has been cancelled, the person playing hard to get will have a genuine reason for not showing up.They will also probably have another time and date in mind so you two can get together.You could end up missing out on the love of your life because neither of you was willing to admit your interest in the other.So maybe it’s time to drop the mind games and get back to some good, honest romance and leave “playing it cool” to the Danny Zukos of this world.It seems that the dating world is full of guys being overly cool and girls being uncommonly cold.How then, can we find our perfect match if both guys and girls try their best to seem uninterested?If someone is playing hard to get they will avoid hurting your feelings unnecessarily.They will call when they are thinking of you and if they say they will meet for coffee then that’s what they will do.The uninterested person, if they have agreed to a date will not have a clear idea of when you can meet again in the future.It’s actually possible that they will just stand you up and leave you waiting alone at the restaurant.