The 10 commandments of dating by ben young sam adams
Although it felt like she had torn my heart right out of my rib cage, it turned out to be one of the most valuable experiences of my dating life.It was through that double-dumping that I learned that I needed a life. When you invest all your energy and self-esteem in getting a date or having a serious relationship, you have nothing else to give. Ben Young leads seminars across the country on building successful dating relationships.he has now written seven books, four of which were coauthored with Sam Adams, including Devotions for Dating Couples, The One and Out of Control.If you keep these ten commandments of dating, your relationships will run more smoothly, you'll protect yourself from broken hearts, and you'll be on your way to building loving, lasting relationships!
If you are wondering what a real life looks like or how to get one, read on.
Inevitably, you will put extraordinary expectations on people to fulfill you, complete you, entertain you, and soothe you.
No created thing-certainly no human-can perform up to those outlandish expectations.
He currently maintains a full-time counseling practice in Austin, Texas, where he resides with his wife, Julie, and their four children.
Thou Shalt Get A Life -- Thou Shalt Use Your Brain -- Thou Shalt Be Equally Yoked -- Thou Shalt Take it Slow -- Thou Shalt Set Clear Boundaries -- Thou Shalt Save Sex for Later -- Thou Shalt Not Play House -- Thou Shalt Fight Fairly -- Thou Shalt Not Ignore Warning Signs -- Thou Shalt Choose Wisely -- Conclusion: Thou Shalt Take Action (The Eleventh Commandment).