Length of average dating rituals
For her 2010 Master’s thesis, Pacific University psychologist Emily Alder recruited 60 adults who’d been married for at least six months.
Aged 22 to 52, most of them had gotten married in their 20s.
They found that the only factor that consistently correlated with marital satisfaction was the length of courtship: The longer they dated, the happier they were in the marriage.
They officially declare themselves a couple after nine dates, on average.
" to "It took him way too long to propose—are you sure? Only you can know when you're ready to take the next step.
But as a baseline, Ian Kerner, Ph D, LMFT, licensed psychotherapist, couple's therapist and author of "I've worked with a lot of couples who have strong relationships, and they met and fell in love quickly and really got to know each other's friends and family," Kerner says.
of 3,058 individuals in February, the most common timetable for having the "exclusive" talk in a relationship was less than four weeks. If four weeks sounds surprisingly short, it actually isn't. It's that the dating game has changed — maybe for the better.
less than a month before becoming exclusive, while 28% of respondents said it took them just one to two months.