Dating again after divorce with children
If your ex-spouse despises you and won't have any contact with you - there's nothing you can do but move on.Reconciliation involves the work of both people because you can't make someone love you again.
Most people want to give their children a loving two-parent household, so when the realization that this dream is no longer real takes hold, parents begin to contemplate reconciliation.
Married couples who have been together for many years may find they have been through too much to leave it all behind after divorce.
These feelings and reminiscent thoughts are what drive divorced couples back to each other to rekindle the passion and love they lost.
"It's common to sweep these emotions under the table, but you have to work through them or they'll pollute your life going forward," Alberti says.
If you find yourself resisting the idea of therapy, you might want to keep in mind that therapy doesn't mean you have a problem or that you're in crisis.