Christian men dating jewish women
OKFine - I grew up in a very religous environment - we were all very cloistered and typically get married very young.
In fact I was engaged when I was 18 - and had my fiancee not died unexpectedly - I would have been a very happy married lady with a bunch of kids ready to start their lives - never having worked a day in my life.
Therefore, are there non-jewish women that will target jewish men because non jewish men do not want to deal with their baggage? Actually yes I have heard of plenty of non jewish women who target jewish men for marriage. With the advent of dating web sites, a whole new world has opened up for these women as they join JDate to snare their unsuspecting jewish men.
I think some of these women get away with murder since the jewish guy is a good family guy. Have you found jewish-husband seeking cougars other men would not bother with? (a family friend met a very nice christian woman on JDate) The theory is that jewish mothers are so overbearing, they have raised their sons to treat women well.
curiousnycgirl: I am curious to know what it was that you see in your non-Jewish man that has made your realize you don't want to go back?
Funny how we are coming from opposite sides of the sepectrum, maybe we just reach a point in our lives where we seek something completely different to what we already know?
What does that have to do with being a "good family man? If this is happening, neither party is a good catch (one has no spine, the other is getting away with murder, whatever that means).
to be honest, I'd never really though of dating a Jewish man when I was single, mostly because where I grew up, you couldn't swing a cat by it's tail without hitting a Catholic. however, the standard for a longterm relationship is based on what kind of person that guy is, be he Jewish or not, ethic or not.
“With American Jewish men brought up from the earliest age to pair up with Jewish women and still so many choose non Jewish mates perhaps Jewish women must reflect on what they might be doing to drive these men away.” For one, I know that my sense of humor is intimidating to men and women alike.
So I’m going to try to be less entertaining from now on.
Perhaps the good ones marry young, so that by the time I was ready to date again they were all taken - who knows.
However I found the jewish men I met later (let's say they were age 28 ) were all a bunch of mamas boys who were intimidated by my career success, etc.