3 day rule for dating
If I was dating a woman for a while, then she would become a top priority.
You could be missing out on a great match simply because he didn't call you the next day after the date.
Yes, I'm demanding - I want to be a priority - I want to be the woman he can't stop thinking about - the woman he can't wait to call. There have been times where I called a woman called 3 days after a date.
It had nothing to do with being a player or having lukewarm interest in her or following some silly rule. Besides even if a first date goes well, that woman wouldn't be my top priority yet since it was just 1 date.
Surely you don't mean that a man you JUST MET should be thinking about you non-stop? Or that you should become his number one priority right off the bat before he even knows you beyond one date? If a man seemed way too interested in you right away when he's only just met you, are you telling me that wouldn't make you feel uncomfortable?
Would that not strike you as suspicious and make you wonder about him?
And I think most people on here will agree with me that honest communication is important.
And I don't cross his mind even once, and he can't pick up the phone? If a man can't make time for me, even by phone, for 3 whole days, he's looking for a different brand of woman than me - one that probably has a bunch of other lines in the water.
Yes, I'm demanding - I want to be a priority - I want to be the woman he can't stop thinking about - the woman he can't wait to call. This is called the three day rule for a reason (although I am big on two).Which means, I have 3 days to pick the best person to be in contact with next, hmmm I smell a smorgasborg. Which means, after 3 dates its ok to sleep together and to the world you will not be thought of as easy. Which means, if you dont hear from after 5 days, realize that I have moved on and feel you don't deserve the respect to say "sorry, I dont think we have much in common, take care and good luck fishing. If a man calls a woman 3 hrs after a date, then some women will think he is desperate or clingy. Saturday he was out with friends most of the day and got home really late that night. The reasons why he didn't call her earlier had nothing to do with him being a player. It seems that the person makes these rules up themselves and the rules are almost like a disease for them.I can't think of any other silly dating rules, as I certainly dont subscribe to this stuff. Or if a man calls a woman 3 days after the date, then some women will think he's a player. Maybe a man was extremely busy and he didn't have a chance to call a woman the day after the date. Where do people could up with these false and inaccurate generalizations? Sunday he is just relaxing and catching up on some sleep because he is very tired from the previous day. The one time I got the three day rule, I sent her an e-mail on the morning of third day telling her not to bother. If a man really cared about me and felt he had to wait for three days to let me know ... I think if we care about someone, there shouldn't be any rules about how we tell that person. I asked this very same question on a different thread: who makes up these rules?My main difference with you is that you should base this off of HOW YOU'RE READING HER responsiveness to your advances and not on some generalized rule.As far as being worried about coming across as needy/desperate, I know that I don't put out a needy/desperate vibe at all, so I don't think she will interpret my calling her the next day or even the same day as needy/desperate.Perhaps, adminsitration could add some new questions to profiles, in the same line of thinking as the new addition, such as "smarts" and "do you have a car".Here are my suggestions: Which of the following Dating Rules do you follow - please choose one of these 2 answers: Yes (I do like to play games, but won't admit it) or No (I am an adult and prefer to act as one)Here are the questions: Being added to my Favorites List without any other contact such as IM or PM?Heck if she has already taken the bait (POF slang) Call away!But if she has not yet fallen for you, many women tend to feel (in my humble male opinion) Smothered.How great are you going to feel by the 3rd day when you finally call the person and they don't take your call or tell you they went out with someone else, or that they are not interested. If a man can't make time for me, even by phone, for 3 whole days, he's looking for a different brand of woman than me - one that probably has a bunch of other lines in the water.Yes, I'm demanding - I want to be a priority - I want to be the woman he can't stop thinking about - the woman he can't wait to call. Of course this takes time..least several dates I would think.